Monday, November 8, 2010

Divert your focus on "Let Go"

Shift Your Focus to Let Go, NOT to What You Want

In many self-help books often explain how we make the intent (intent) to achieve what we want. During this time many people who think intent as "something That We Want to Happen". Therefore, our conscious mind trying to find the positive intent and happy.

Often we are taught how to make the intent that its 3P: Positive, Precise, Present. So intent is defined at the beginning and endeavored to happen because we believe such a scenario the best. Intent of this kind can be successful. But usually when you do not succeed, we may feel like a failure and thinks there is a wrong process.
Saturday, November 6, 2010

5 steps to improve the quality of self-base

The basic steps we often forget to do self improvement, both in terms of general knowledge, special skills, to the desire to achieve a capability that exceeds the ability of average people. Which this has been a dream of most people, to bearing the title of populists. Excelling in every aspect of life. However, no effort then the quality of self will not progress as expected.
Quality itself is very important and very influential in guiding one's journey to success. Because the quality of self is closely related to how much one is able to take action, which requires its own expertise in the field that he wrestled. so that a person has a strong conviction to the plane that was involved.

Nevertheless ....
Friday, November 5, 2010

The definition of self-development

Defining Development.

The definition of self-development is "The individuals who develop the knowledge, skills and their abilities through the efforts directed by themselves." From the definition it is clear that these approaches reflect the principles of participation and independence. How self-development approach implicitly incorporate important features of learning autonomy embodied in the creation of self-reliance, responsibility, and courage to take risks.




Process Development
Apply self-development requires individuals to consider and answer three important questions. The answers do not be definitive, even in fact the answer is often more tentative than certain. For most people, it is advantageous because flexibility is important. The questions are:

Learning from the world's best speakers


Tips for Being a Good Speaker
What actually most desired by everyone? In my opinion, only one important thing that is wanted to be heard by many people. Yes, everyone wants for what he said could be heard even adhered to by many people. To be able to hear a lot of people, then you should become a powerful speaker. How do I? Apparently there are some similarities that are owned by the world's best speakers.

 



Wednesday, November 3, 2010

How heavy your pressing issues?

Expand soul, rejoice with any problems.


For many people, the big problem which must lead to greater pressure. is not it? The problem of lack of money $ 10,000 is clearly different from the problem of lack of money $ 5 million. But is the pressure exerted is the same two problems as well? Not necessarily!
In physics we know a formula of pressure. It is a style compared to the cross-sectional area. P = F / A. (P = pressure, F = Force A = Area of cross-section). In the mental and emotional life, the pressure is your stress level. Style is the magnitude of the problems you face. Cross -sectional area is the condition of your soul breadth.
Let us understand with additional illustrations and a bucket of water. For example there is a size 5 liter bucket. If you put water into it as much as 3 liters, then the bucket can contain it. There was no water is spilled. This is the same whether you are still able to stay calm when faced with a problem which is smaller than the vastness of your soul. But, when incorporated as much as 6 liters of water, it will spill 1 liter.

Being Kind to Yourself When Circumstance Is Not

The Test of Trying Times - Being Kind to Yourself When Circumstance Is Not - By Rob Brookler

We've all arrived at those moments when we feel overwhelmed by trying circumstances within our life. We've done all we can, bearing up without great success or relief. And in our frustration and fatigue, we've probably looked up to heaven and asked: "How can you possibly ask more of me?"
If we could hear clearly through our distress, we'd probably hear heaven lovingly reply: "'We' are not."
And this is a most compassionate and instructive answer, for our lessons are never "sent" to punish or defeat us. So when we find ourselves truly anguished by our challenges, we can be sure that it is "we" that need to be reminded we've done enough.
While our circumstances and life-lessons will certainly make demands on us, it is the "added" weight of our own self-judgment -- our impatience with ourselves and our life, our "sense" of failure or injustice, our fear -- that actually depletes our strength and overwhelms us.
Heaven knows that we learn, grow, and heal best when we're balanced and light. This balance and lightness, however, is largely our responsibility. And while there is great "higher" support for us during our times of personal challenge, not even heaven can remove a strain "we" are actively imposing on ourselves.
So when we feel pushed to the breaking point, it is we who must ease up on the pushing.

Some People Talk Too Much. Why ?

Talking too much is one of the the most common bad habits.  Discover the reasons why people talk too much.  If you are guilty of being too talkative, learn how you can break this annoying habit.

[Inspiration] Rohan Murphy


Murphy who grew up raised in East Islip. Rohan never let his disability affect him mentally or physically. He was a very good wrestler in high school and even eventually went on to compete at Penn State. Now that he is done he still does powerlifting competitions (bench press) to keep his competitive spirit alive. Murphy personal competition bench record is lifted 350 pounds and his goal is 400.



How do you solve a problem?

Two approaches in viewing a problem

In my experience working and interacting with many people, I observe there are two types of people in the face of trouble or problems, whether in work or social life. Two types are reactive (reacting so problems come) and receptive (to accept the problem).

Overcome Lack of Motivation

Strategic Steps Maintaining Motivation

One factor that prevents you from success is the lack of motivation. How many times have you said, "I want to be rich", "I want to succeed" but you do not show in your actions that you can be rich and you can succeed.
Monday, November 1, 2010

[Inspiration] Nick Vujicic



This is the story of a man who was handsome and intelligent, and beautiful voice, who was born without both arms and both legs. But he remains excited and happy in living his life. He is good at playing golf, surfing, and swimming. Moreover, he was also successful in his career. Nick Vujicic (26 years), Serbian-born Australian man was, indeed extraordinary!

3 Keys to Success Secrets of Ancient Chinese Youth Part 2


This article is a continuation from Part 1 that can be found here
In the last article, it mentioned that there are 3 keys to success, namely:1. Clear objectives.2. Dare to change tradition3. Endless patience.
Now let us discuss one by one.
 
Friday, October 29, 2010

3 Keys to Success Secrets of Ancient Chinese Youth Part 1

After making an article about the pattern of success, now I will tell the story of a young man who has high tenacity.

The Story 

3000 years ago, the floating of the land of ancient China live on houses on the water. They have dinner in the open air.
Each family lived on the stage in a bay. When a boy was growing up, she would stand on the edge of the stage and called the girl. The girl who loved him would call him back. Then he would build a bridge from stage to stage the girl.
If the family of the boy likes the girl, they will help build the bridge. Both houses they will be merged and will become a second family. 

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Three powerful tips for Becoming Productive

Have you ever felt the time was already lunch time but you have not completed a single work? We feel busy, but we do not feel productive. We're just wasting time with busy that do not produce anything. One thing you should realize that busyness is not the same as being productive. You can spend a few hours without producing anything. Sounds familiar? There are several principles that should you consider in time management so you can work effectively:


Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Motivation: Lazy, go away!


It was a lot of us who like to procrastinate work. This really is a habit and is often caused because we are lazy to do something. We are lazy to get out of bed, we are lazy to go exercise, we are lazy to complete the task the office, etc..




 

According to research, is a lazy habit of mental illness that arises because we are afraid to face the consequences of the future. The definition of the future is not just one or two years but one or two minutes from now. For instance when you wake up lazy of you will say to himself: "One minute I'll wake up", but in reality you probably will linger in bed until finally it is time to get ready to go to the office.
Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Pattern of Success Part 2

Well, this article is the second part. You can see the first part here. There is still a 3 point again that I want to tell.Let us continue.


Pattern of Success Part 1

Simple, but not easy.
Success is achieved by a simple pattern. Anyone who can run this pattern, then success be inevitable. Who is fast running pattern, success was achieved quickly. Initial conditions, it is influential, but not more decisive than the running pattern. The poor and the rich more quickly where success? When only counting the initial conditions, then the rich man answers. But is not the determining initial conditions, but the process of running the pattern. The poor are much faster to run a successful pattern of the rich, will achieve success more quickly as well.

Well, how the pattern of success? There are 5 stages that form a pattern of success : 


Monday, October 25, 2010

Superb Tips to Motivate yourself

Maintaining self-motivation is the difficulty for everyone. Whether it's motivation, self motivation, or motivation for the neighborhood. Motivation to be dropped when a situation becomes difficult.
That's when a bad mood.
It was then that pessimism started to hit.
And that's when the willingness to give up because it is not strong enough to continue it

Stop Thinking and Take Action

I have a friend, His name is David. David, a private bank employee, has repeatedly participated in seminars about entrepreneurship. Various kinds of techniques he had learned the business but to this day he still does not dare to take action to start a new business.
Many of us who have a "hobby" but it felt really learn to live not show significant change. How many books have you read, how many times have you gone to a seminar, how many times you are asked to immediately take action but until this moment you are still not moving. Feeling guilty?